Here's the thing, sometimes we don't feel like talking, or forcing a conversation, we're too tired, spent an entire day in meetings, or negotiating with a very stubborn four year old. That doesn't mean that we don't want to have a great time together. Sometimes it helps to make the centre of the date about an activity, making the conversation tends to follow a lot more naturally.
49 Date Night Activities Where Fun Comes First, Conversation Second
- Play some pool
- Visit a museum or art gallery
- Have an arcade night out, or get your hands on some classic arcade games to enjoy at home (Ms. Pacman night anyone?)
- Karaoke or some old school Rock Band
- Schedule a beer or wine tasting (at home or at a local gastro pub or brewery)
- Attend a poetry reading or open mic, feeling brave? Go on up!
- Check out a concert, big band, great venue, or hidden gem at your neighbourhood hole in the wall.
- Go bowling
- Play some miniature golf
- Get on a boat (canoe, kayak or paddle boat)
- Look for a carnival or fun fair, win some prizes, eat some funnel cake
- Play some ping pong
- Challenge your date to a game of cards (Chris and I have an ongoing cribbage tournament for quiet evenings and big competition, enjoy Crazy Eight Countdown)
- Play a cooperative board game (we're currently digging the game Pandemic)
- Attend a cooking class together
- Hit a drive in movie
- Go pick some fruit, bonus points to anyone who make pies or jams together afterwards
- Take a hike together, go somewhere really breath taking
- Go skating or roller-skating or roller-blading
- Go to a comedy club, just don't sit in the front row unless you want to take your chances on being included in a stand-up routine
Chris rockin out to the Metallica pinball machine at Emporium Arcade Bar in Chicago - Take a dance class
- Visit an escape room, need more players, make it a double or triple date
- Check out a local sports team
- Go biking
- Look for a bar trivia night and work together to beat other teams (you've totally got this!)
- Take a walking tour of a neighbourhood (Janes Walk is a great resource to get started)
- Hit a flea market or go antiquing for something special
- Try Geocaching
- Attend an art class together
- Volunteer for a worthy cause together
- Get theatrical, see a play
- Try an improv class (okay, maybe there will be a lot of talking involved here)
- Go to a spa together (or to save some money pamper each other at home)
- Go on a cruise (booze cruise or sight seeing)
- Go rock or wall climbing
- Take a couples yoga class
- Go to a farmer's market
- Need to work out some frustration? How about a game of laser tag or paintball
- Want to take target, consider an archery class, playing darts or ax throwing
- Play some poker, want to make things interesting? How about a game of strip poker?
- Attend a lecture together (it could be on a topic that one or both of you are passionate about, academically or extra-curricular)
- Take a ghost tour
- Hit the driving range, or play a round of golf
- Have a photo shoot, or draw each other
- Read a book (or book series) together, this can become a nightly or weekly activity
- Get out the dice and play a game of Yahtzee
- Try a bookstore date challenge (to learn how click here)
- Play Frisbee or catch
- Hit the batting cages
Have other date ideas, comment below!
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