Monday 28 December 2020

Top 10 Most Popular Blogs of 2020

In recent years, I started keeping track of my most popular posts because it helps me see which articles touch others most, hopefully allowing me to create even better content. With the bizarre year 2020 has been, I couldn't guess which posts would come out on top, but as I look at them now it all makes sense. They are about doing what we've all been doing this past 10 months, with only two of them being about "life before pandemic". They are about simple pleasures, connecting, and enjoy nature.

If you missed something check it out and enjoy! Stay healthy and safe and we'll see you in 2021!


via NME


Mother Daughter Bonding

Celebrating The Babysitter's Club With my Daughter


The Little Things

Practicing Gratitude


Making Celebrations Special During COVID

via Pinterest


Making a Birthday Special During COVID-19 For Your Kids 


Celebrating Our First Hygge Weekend In Style


Our Halloween Decoration Scavenger Hunt



Urban Adventures in Toronto 

via Wiffle Gif

A Fairy Walk in Magwood Park


Canoeing the Humber River


Getting Outdoors in Ontario

via North Eastern Ontario


Hiking Bridal Veil Falls Manitoulin Island


Hiking Oakville at 16 Mile Creek


Goal Setting With Virtual Fitness Challenges

via Smarter Travel

Hiking The Grand Canyon, Kind Of



Monday 7 December 2020

Hiking & Exploring Wye Marsh

We've been fortunate that it's been a warm fall. As such none of the winter activities like snow shoe rentals have opened, even north of Toronto yet. It will likely be another week or two before they do. Because of this, and because we needed to get outside, we ended up breaking our "no hiking unless it's at least six degrees outside" rule. It was worth it, even though it was close to -10 with the wind chill.

This past Saturday we hiked 5KMs worth of trails at Wye Marsh Wildlife Centre.


Wye Marsh boasts being open 362 days a year and is located just north/west of Orillia in Tay, Ontario.

Entry is $12 for adults and $9 for kids and is well worth it. Covered in your entry is some bird seed to allow you to feed the Chickadees while you wander the grounds.

Wye Marsh is a charitable organization that houses 3,000 acres of wetlands and woods. It is also home to 12 birds of prey, 6 turtles, and 2 snakes who require special care and would not survive in the wild. We were particularly taken with the snapping turtle, white owl, and bald eagle.

We spent over two and a half hours exploring the grounds, hiking, and enjoying the company of our chickadee friends.

Seeing the ducks and swan gather on the pond while ice began to form around the edges was pretty, especially since we don't get out into the wild quite as much this time of year. 

When my sister in law saw the photos she mentioned that we all officially became Disney Princesses with adorable birds eating out of our hands. I argued that we were maybe a little more like the bird lady from Home Alone 2, but it was an amazing experience just the same.

The kids explored a lean-to shelter along the hike.

The boardwalk hike provided an easy to follow path for us.

One of the benefits of masking up for COVID-19 prevention is that your mask also keeps your face warm.

Along our path we spotted a small dock spider looking for somewhere to wait out the winter. Can you see him?

Wye Marsh is also home to bees. You can even buy their wild flower honey from their gift shop.


Such a pretty, frosty day. I'm happy to report that our new thermal gear worked and not once did anyone complain about being cold. We will definitely be back here, maybe in the spring and summer to enjoy some of the sites via a canoe rental and may try some snow shoeing here come winter. We are happy to support this amazing home for so many wonderful creatures! You can buy an annual membership, day pass, or simply visit their gift shop for some amazing purchases.  We think the kids will remember this specific hike for quite some time!


Wednesday 2 December 2020

Holiday Movie Bucket List

It's tough to stay home for the holidays. We're trying to embrace our inner couch potato and watch as many holiday specials, movies, and shows as possible, stay safe, festive, and protect others from COVID-19

Below is our 2020 holiday viewing bucket list, divided by category, that we will update live until January 1st for you to draw inspiration from. We'll watch most together, although the kids won't get to see the most grown-up fare. Did we miss anything? Let us know and we may try to see it as well.


Family Classics



Miracle on 34th Street✔


Charlie Brown Christmas


Garfield Christmas✔


Rudolph


Frosty


Muppet Christmas Carol


The Grinch✔


Modern Classics




Home Alone✔


Home Alone 2 ✔


Elf✔


Christmas with the Kranks




Christmas Vacation✔


The Santa Klaus


The Nightmare Before Christmas


Scrooged ✔


A Christmas Story


I'll Be Home For Christmas

Jingle all the Way

The Simpsons - Roasting on an Open Fire


The Simpsons - Marge Be Not Proud✔



Holiday Meets Horror & Action



Anna & the Apocalypse✔


Die Hard


Gremlins✔




New(ish) Specials 

Alien Xmas ✔


Spongebob Christmas


The Christmas Chronicles I


Tween Favourites (that we also love)



Lilly & Dash✔


Let It Snow✔


Romance 

Love Actually ✔


Serendipity✔


Holidate✔


The Princess Switch


The Holiday✔


Other

Bad Santa


Tuesday 1 December 2020

Enjoy Free Drive Through Holiday Spirit in the GTA

COVID-19 has cancelled a lot of our favourite holiday activities. Every year we go and check out local Green House displays, but our favourite is closed until further notice - so no plant displays led by reindeer for us this year.

Since nothing is normal about this Christmas we are looking for fun and socially distant ways to boost our holiday spirit. We put up our Christmas Tree a full week earlier than usual, getting our home all decked out for Christmas in November. I read somewhere that people who put up their decorations in November are generally happier, let's test the theory and see if that's true!  


Image via Pexels

We also ordered some outdoor lights to help "Jazz up" the exterior of our house, so those will go up whenever Canadian Tire ships them. Other people in Toronto have been stepping up their holiday game for years. 

While there are many pay holiday displays  this year for those who want to visit, I thought it would be fun to highlight the ones you can enjoy at no cost.  


Here are four COVID Approved Drive through, or outdoor walk along Holiday displays to enjoy this year.



Kringlewood

We started taking this drive about three years ago.  Located on Inglewood Drive (Inglewood Drive, from St. Clair East all the way to Rosedale Heights), this street has transformed into Kringlewood each December as more than 50 houses display giant inflatable Santas. First started in 2013, this 1km stretch has hosted their own "Santa City". We usually drive the street twice trying to determine how many Santas there are total AND how many different versions of Santa we can spot.


Image via BlogTO


The Snowman Club

This just came to my attention today and we will reveal this as a complete surprise to each kid the next time we need to run an errand in the east end of the city. Located near Blantyre Public School, (Victoria Park and Gerrard) close to the Toronto Hunt Club golf course. There are apparently more than 40 giant snowmen to visit!


Oakville - Santa's Workshop House

Located at 2266 Munn Ave. (the corner of Munn’s and Sixth Line) this Christmas home will not disappoint whether you visit during the day or evening. They also have an impressive Halloween display (which I believe was skipped this year because of COVID). We first discovered this winter wonderland one Halloween because it's right around the corner from one set of grandparents. 



Image via Toronto.com


West End Toronto - The Christmas House

Located at Glenlake Avenue and Dorval Road (just north of Keele Station), conveniently very close to our home, this place is amazing! The best part about visiting here was that when we visited two years ago I ran into a neighbour who told me about another home just around the corner who have a light display coordinated to their own radio station you can enjoy in your car. The song loop lasts several songs long and is best seen at night! 


Any other free options in and around the city we should check out? Let us know in the comments!


Thursday 26 November 2020

Help!

I have had the draft of this blog entry on my mind for nearly two months. I have so much to say, but I didn't know how to say it. I still don't because we're still so much "in the thick of it all".

After years of wondering, waiting, and advocating for Jack to get extra help with his schooling and absolutely no end in sight, we finally took the plunge outside of our school board. Jack finally got his psychological educational assessment, and has been diagnosed with two learning disabilities - one in writing and one in mathematics.

When we got the results it was a flurry of emotion, relief, sadness, and excitement. We finally have a better idea of how Jack's brain works, how to help him, when to push him, and when to let him take a break.

Armed with this report in our hands. I entered the school year hopeful that Jack would have an IEP (Individualized Educational Plan) that reflected his specific needs shortly into the school year.  We're still waiting and advocating and waiting. I am sharing all of this with Jack's permission.


A friend posted this on Facebook and am I ever feeling this!

I feel like we saw the finish line of getting Jack what he needs and it turns out that it was just a mirage. We've been "in line" for supports and an IEP for years now. While his online homeroom teacher this year has been fantastic with him, I don't know when we'll get an IEP in our hands, when we'll get our IPRC meeting (Identification, Placement and Review Committee) to help him get what he needs, and when or how we will be able to get his disabilities recognized during his schooling as a part of his Human Rights.

I am hopeful that this will all be resolved and in place by the end of this school year, but with the pandemic I just don't know if that's going to happen. Some days it makes me want to scream, cry, and other days I can't help but laugh at how broken this "one size fits most" educational system is. 

Jack is doing well with some adhoc interventions this year so far, with my being freelance I have become his scribe, help him keep his focus, IT tech support for both kids, and continue my role as his advocate. 

Although it's been good for the most part we've had some setbacks. Sometimes I'm on a tight deadline and can't help, sometimes I lose my patience with technology, or with him, and then I feel awful. 

This week has been rough because of a disruption in routine. Previously both kids skipped one afternoon a week of distance learning to participate in an outdoor nature "school" at High Park. It has been great. It's entirely outdoors, and lets them interact with other kids during the pandemic. Unfortunately with rising numbers of COVID-19 in Toronto it's been paused until further notice.  Jack has been a wreck.  We're limiting screen time off hours, I'm giving him more breaks, we're all still learning.

I am frustrated. I am upset that because Jack doesn't have behavioural issues and is quiet often going into his own head when he is overwhelmed it has meant that him getting help through the school board has been given minimal priority. He doesn't disrupt a classroom and he is lost in a sea of other kids. He has maintained marks just below grade level - something he has worked so hard on with the help of us and a tutor to achieve, something most people can't afford. 

I am also thankful. Because of our family and our jobs we have been in a position to be able to supplement learning with a regular tutor for one on one instruction for both kids for two and a half years now. It has helped improved Jack's confidence and given me a break, allowing me more non-academic time with both kids. We were also able to afford Jack's assessment, something that we'd likely remain on the waiting list for until he was in middle school if we relied on the school board alone. My job allows me to give him the support myself that he needs during remote learning, because there are no resources available otherwise.

I am well aware of how unfair this system is and how easy we have it compared to many other parents. I just wish things weren't so slow, that it wasn't so hard to get him what he needs. 

Right now I'm working on getting him the tools he needs and helping him to begin to advocate for himself because where I sign off he'll have to take over as he grows up. Thank you to everyone who is helping us along this long and interesting path.  Cheers to more answers in 2021!


Wednesday 18 November 2020

Things My Kids Say As Posted On Twitter

Right now I feel we could all use a laugh. Sometimes my kids are funny. So I'm going to share this roundup and snippets of recent conversations I've had with M&J as shared on Twitter.




"Please keep that gemstone out of your breakfast. You're going to choke." and other fun moments in parenting



Reason 127 my kids are fighting today M: We're playing superheroes and he keeps saying his power is vomiting acid and he's killed me three times in a row and it isn't fair. 



J: Why can't I draw myself with a moustache for my self portrait for French class? Me: Because you don't have a moustache. J: You mean I don't have a moustache yet.




J: Clifford the dog is ridiculous. I just don't get it, I've never seen a bright red dog in real life. Me: That's your problem? J: Yes, and the whole lack of explanation about why he's a giant. #kidsbooks



J: Who are the bad guys in Sharknado? Me: Umm the sharks. J: But that's so unrealistic, sharks barely hurt anyone in real life. (The boy clearly hasn't seen Ian Ziering chainsaw a shark in half midair yet)



Feeling old. It turns out all this time when I mentioned the 90s M thought I was talking about the 1890's. #parenting





J: There's some guy on our porch. Me: That's postal delivery. J: Aww man. I was hoping he'd have pizza.



M: Aren't there five seasons? Autumn, winter, spring, summer & gelato?





Watching Garfield Halloween special. M: I really enjoy Garfield, but something about John just makes me feel so sad.



M: Remember when you made fun of me for putting bacon in my pocket as a snack for later? Me: Yeah. M: You were wrong. No wild dogs chased me. (She sure showed me).

Wednesday 11 November 2020

Hiking Rattlesnake Point

 It's not very often you get double digits let alone daily temperature highs approaching 20 in early November. This past weekend we knew we had to take advantage and hike as much as we could. We weren't the only ones with this idea which meant traffic on the way to this hike was heavy and parking was hard to find (even with the 2 hour window registration bookings). This is a Halton region hike where your reservation is tracked using your license place and it cost just under $25 for the four of us to hike.

We tackled the well maintained Buffalo Crag Lookout Trail (3.2KM) which took us about an hour to complete including a couple of breaks for looking at stunning views, photos, climbing some rocks, and an afternoon snack.

This is a easy to moderate trail with some hills, rocks, tree roots and a number of unfenced drop offs and cliffs. Keep toddlers strapped to you and little ones nearby. Pets are permitted on this trail if kept on leash.

Noses beware! Since this trail overlooks a lot of farm fields you may get some wafts of manure while you hike, but it is only for a small portion of the trail.

While the fall colours are long gone, the nice weather and scenic views atop the escarpment made for beautiful hike.


Caves and rocks made for good exploring and climbing along the way.


Recent dry leaves made for some excellent crunching.

Stunning lookouts that would have been particularly gorgeous a couple of weeks ago when the fall colours were at their peak.

Fun fact for fans of the CBC show Schitt's Creek, a pivotal moment in season 5 happened right here. 

I highly recommend this hike and will try to get it on our list for earlier next fall so I can capture all the gold and reds on the trees. 

Hoping to get two or three more hikes in before the snow flies.  Wish us luck!


Monday 26 October 2020

Hiking Crawford Lake

Before COVID-19 our family had a rule when it came to hiking. We wouldn't hike unless the daily high was 10 Degrees C (50 degrees F). Because we want to get out and stay active and healthy we've lowered this limit to a high of seven to eight degrees, and after keeping warm enough on our hike this weekend we think we may lower it to five degrees this year to extend our hiking season just a little bit longer.

This weekend we explored Crawford Lake to catch some of the last of the fall colours. This is one of the Halton area region hikes where you need to reserve in advance to make sure you can abide by their social distancing COVID-19 rules, so we booked this one the Tuesday before our hike. You can buy your reservation at the park in two hour blocks, so if you want to take on one of the lengthier hikes I'd imagine you'd need to reserve two, two hour blocks of time to make sure you are following their rules. Park staff check your license plate when you arrive to ensure only those with reservations are on the trails. The total cost for the four of us for two hours was $23.00.

It was a colder morning and we layered appropriately. Jack and I tend to run warmer and wore long sleeved shirts, hoodies, and toques, while Chris and Molly added on an extra layer of light coats and gloves to keep warm.  Remember to bring masks with you just in case. Although the hiking by appointment helped reduce crowds, and most people were wonderful at keeping a respectful distance, there was some very bad behaviour here. One couple on this trail who we crossed paths with three times were both clearly sick. One was constantly blowing his nose and the other coughing.  Neither wore masks. We ended up masking up and rushing ahead whenever we saw them. Remember, if you're ill, please stay home!

There are a number of trails to explore at Crawford Lake, so in order to keep within our time limit we had to choose wisely. We took on the 2.4KM Escarpment trail first which although secluded, was also rocky, muddy, and challenging. It was difficult in spots to pick up the speed we needed to keep warm as we climbed around muddy and rocky areas.  This challenging hike took us just under an hour without stopping and is best for older kids who are used to hiking.

Next, we planned to take a trail towards the Crawford Lake 1KM boardwalk trail. Unfortunately, trail markers are not that clear in some portions of the conservation area. Since the Bruce Trail (independent from Crawford Lake) uses blue trail markers just like the Crawford Lake Trail, and some of the faded sign colours have made greens look like blues, we ended up on the Pine Ridge Trail for some time before we retraced our steps to find the Crawford Lake Trail.


We were running out of time for the Crawford Lake trail, so needed to move quickly to make sure we could see the trail and get back to the car in time. 

The Crawford Lake trail has many interpretive art wood carvings that the kids loved. This 1km trail is simple and great for those with younger kids.

The flat trail was pretty with fall colours.

Molly loved posing on the benches for photos.

The boardwalk trail next to the lake is pretty, and has been set up with one way traffic during COVID to keep people apart. One piece of advice is to hit this trail early in your time slot so you don't run out of time.  The boardwalk bottlenecked toward the end, with very few places to pass people, and towards the end it felt more like a social distanced line up at the grocery store than a hike. 

The views were pretty and we had fun, but with the short, 2 hour window we were rushed at the end and didn't have a chance to explore the Iroquoian Village near the visitor centre. This hike is worth booking in advance and going to again.

Happy Trails!

Thursday 22 October 2020

Becoming Pennywise: Maker Parent Halloween Costume Ideas

 Whenever I tell anyone that my 9-year-old son is going as Pennywise the Dancing Clown from It, this year to celebrate Halloween, and specifically The Alexander Skarsgard version the clown I always trail with an emphatic disclosure -

 "No, I have never let Jack see It or read It, the mini series with Tim Curry, or the more recent two film series starring Alexander Skarsgard, but yes that is what he's dressing up as this year." 

He is aware of It because of the schoolyard, a fascination with pop culture and comics, and because it amuses him greatly that one of his aunts is afraid of clowns and he loves to tease her. He's been begging for this costume for two years and we finally made it happen. This is how I did it 

Skarsgard Pennywise dresses like what I'd describe as an "old timey" sad French clown Perroit. Fun fact about me as a child, I used to collect these clowns even though I was mildly afraid of them. I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. To make the Perroit clown costume I thrifted a flower girl dress for $7.99, a pair of white jeans for $3.99 (these will become Molly's after Halloween), and a black and white ballerina tutu for $2.99.

I am an adequate sewist at best, so much of my creation had to do with cutting and attaching the tutu to Jack's dress and pants. I cut two of the ruffles off the bottom of the dress and then cut, pinned, and sewed the deconstructed tutu to his collar and sleeves. I rolled up and pinned the sleeves of the dress to ensure that his laced cuffs weren't too long for his arms. I also sewed cuffs for his pants to pull on over the white jeans.

I purchased two blank half masks from Spirit Halloween for $3.99 each. Since my eldest niece is far more talented than I am with a paintbrush she graciously agreed to paint on two different Pennywise faces for Jack, one with teeth and one without. The painting supplies we already had on hand from our craft supplies.

Here is the sewn costume mostly done. I couldn't find pompoms big and bold enough for the front of the costume, so instead I went to Dollarama and purchased two red puff "Canadian" key rings for $1.25 a piece that I took apart and pinned to the front of his frock. We bought spray can red hair to make for $2.50 from Dollarama, however apparently the next time he dresses up (for our Halloween Scavenger Hunt) I need to do a better job of spiking his hair into two sections so he can look "just like Skarsgard". His white stretchy pull on gloves were borrowed from nana. 


This photo is with the standard Pennywise face, and boat he's posing with for this photo is Molly's. 



This photo is with the sharp "I'm going to eat you" teeth mask.

What Pennywise photoshoot would be complete without someone posing as a terrified Georgie? This is Jack's raincoat that he affectionately calls his "Georgie" coat.

I had so much fun planning this costume. Total cost of the costume $27.95 plus taxes. While, Trick or Treating is cancelled in Toronto, we're still going to enjoy some social distanced activities where many people can see and be terrified of Pennywise, from at least 2 metres apart.  

As for when we're going to let Jack watch It, I honestly don't know. I told him that he needed to read the book Coraline, not get too scared of that and then he could talk to me about reading It which he knows is 1,138 pages long. I think this bought us a couple more years.

Happy crafting! Happy Halloween.

To find out about our social distancing friendly Halloween Decor Scavenger Hunt click here.