Tuesday 31 December 2019

Top 10 Blogs of the 2010s

While I've only been blogging since shortly after the minions were born (August of 2011), these end of the decade wrap ups still are a good enough excuse to bring together my top blog posts of all time.  I am also working on a top 20 albums list of the 2010's, but will be posting it later.

Take a read, or a walk down memory lane, like I have. I am so happy that I've continued to write about my journey as a parent and my lovely kids.  Hopefully one day they'll cherish this blog as much as I do.

My Top 10 Blog Posts of All Time


Hiking Algonquin

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Happy Wanderer - Hiking Algonquin Park Booth Rock Trail 

Newborn Days


First Time - Post Baby Shopping List


Fine Motor Skills


Hands - Activities To Boost Fine Motor Skills

Parenting

via Tenor


Footloose - Motivating Kids With Rewards

Playground Reviews

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The Whole World is Our Playground: Vermont Square Playground Review


The Whole World is Our Playground: Marie Curtis Park 


The Whole World is Our Playground: Review Neshama Playground/Oriole Park


The Whole World Is Our Playground: Revisiting Jeff Healey Playground  



Milestones

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The First Time - Celebrating Little (Big) Moments 

Body Image


The Climb - Body Image


Sunday 29 December 2019

10 Most Popular Blog Entries of 2019

These year end lists are popping up everywhere, especially with us entering a new decade, but more on that later.  I thought I'd round up my ten most popular posts of 2019.  Reviewing this helps me figure out which posts touch people the most and create better content for next year. If you missed something check it out and enjoy.  I hope I can continue to provide informative and mostly entertaining content into 2020.  Enjoy

10 Most Popular Blog Posts of 2019


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Playground Reviews

The Whole World Is Our Playground: Playground Review Humbertown Park

Money

10 Ways to Save Money While on Vacation with Kids 

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Highly Debated Topics

Rebel Yell - Why I Let My 7 Year Olds Dye Their Hair

Should We Move Halloween to the Weekend?

Twin Life

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10 Things I Hate About Being A Twin Mom 

10 Things I Love About Being A Twin Mom

Raising Self-Sufficient Kids

Loser - Making Kids Accountable For Their Own Stuff!

Hiking

Hiking Murphy's Point Provincial Park

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Parental Struggles

Those Moments - When Spiderman Goes Wrong

Anxiety & Big Little Problems

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My Tummy Hurts, Anxiety, & Other Reasons to Call Home


Friday 20 December 2019

Things My Kids Say As Shared On Twitter

My kids say and do a lot of smaller things that never make the blog.  This regular round up is a fun way for me to share some of the smaller moments from my parenting journey.  Enjoy! 


1. Me: They say they want a collage for this project. J: Okay fine.  But remember I don't want anything touching or overlapping. Me: Do you understand what a collage is? J: Yes.  So nothing touching #SMH #SchoolProjects #parenting #crafting

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2. Who walks all the way to school before they realize they left their backpack at home despite several reminders? My kid that's who! #parenting

3. Me: you can get dressed up when we go to church to see your cousins perform in the Christmas service. M: like in a costume? I think I’ll wear wings like an angel. Me: no that’s inappropriate. I mean fancy. M: okay but that’s not as much fun #parenting #smh

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4. Me: How are you feeling today buddy? J: Much better! And I learned an awesome new word: sharted.  Don't worry, dad told me that I'm not allowed to say it at school #parenting #thingskidssay #SMH

5. When you leave your son unattended to sign holiday cards #smh #parenting



6. When you have to tell your son that #venoming (yes this is a verb in our house) is not appropriate while watching a church pageant #parenting #SMH #SundayFunday #SundayMorning #Marvel


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7. Within the first fifteen minutes of real cold weather we have already lost one pair of gloves and discovered that winter boots no longer fit 'when I wear my cozy socks' #parenting

8. J: I can't wear pyjama shirts with buttons. Me: Why? J: Because they make me furious and that's not what pyjama day is all about. (And today we celebrate the true meaning of um...pyjama day?) #parenting #thingskidssay #smh

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Wednesday 18 December 2019

Paperback Writer - Sharing My Writing On Other Sites

While most of the writing I do nowadays is ghostwriting, which I can't share, there are still a number of articles that give my name credit beyond this blog and parenting writing. 

It's been a while since I've shared, and it's been a busy/ November/ December so there is a lot of content. I am so thankful that I get to write and learn new things every day in my work whether I'm ghostwriting or otherwise.  Please click on and share any of the links that interest you, and as always, if you have any article ideas for me for the blog or anything else shoot me an email or a comment! Enjoy!


Holiday Season Writing






Body Positivity For Profit

Friends

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Personal Finance & Money 



Female Leadership

Is Diversity Leadership Dying

Music Gossip

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Frances Bean Cobain: 20 Photos Of Kurt's Daughter All Grown Up

20 Little Known Facts About Kid Rock's Relationship With Pamela Anderson

Celebrity Gossip

20 Things Keanu Reeves Wants To Keep Hush Hush

20 Surprising Facts About Katie Holmes And Suri Cruise's Relationship

20 Surprising Details About Jaden Smith And Will's Relationship

10 Celebs Who Were Married For Minutes (5 Who Stood The Test of Time)


Celebs Behaving Badly

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10 Actors Known For On-Set Tantrums (And 5 Total Sweethearts)

Celebs Before They Were Famous

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15 Rags To Riches Celeb Stories (And 5 Who Faked Them)

20 Rare Pics Of The Cast Of Big Bang Theory Before Fame

Marijuana Investment

Is Aphria Going to Finally be the New Number 1?



Saturday 14 December 2019

2019 Family Holiday Season Bucket List

Time seems to move faster around the holidays.  We've found in the past if we don't make a list of all the things we want to do (and check it twice ;>) we end up missing out on something we love to do as a part of building and maintaining holiday traditions.

Here's what's on our list this year, some of it is new and some of it is longstanding tradition....I hope it inspires you.  If you have any can't miss personal events or Toronto based things to do please share!  I'm checking it off as we go and hopefully we can do all of it!

Holiday Season Bucket List


Lights near our neighbourhood last year

Attend the Santa Clause Parade (this year was our first one)

Order, sign & send out holiday cards

Make Holiday Pomanders

Visit Kringlewood (the Toronto street with all of the giant Santa's) - To learn more about Kringlewood click here

Visit the Sparkle Tunnel (The Tunnel of Glam) to learn more click here.


Tunnel of Glam in 2018

Visit Santa

Go to The Aurora Festival

Visit the Christmas display at Centennial Conservatory Green house


Conservatory circa 2018

Go bowling

See Jumanji II in Theatres

See the Star Wars Movie in theatres (just the adults)

Visit the festive Christmas Houses near Keele and Bloor (including the one with the Greatest Showman display)

Attend a family carol sing along

Hold our own family carol sing along

Boxing Day family hockey game

Go to the ROM 

Decorate a gingerbread house



Treats for Santa & his reindeer

Movies and Holiday Specials To Watch


Nightmare Before Christmas

Scrooged

Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer

Frosty the Snowman

Home Alone

Home Alone II

Love Actually (just the adults)

Serendipity (just the adults)

The Office Christmas Episodes 

A Christmas Carol

Charlie Brown Christmas

Christmas Vacation

Elf

Miracle on 34th Street

The Grinch

Die Hard

Gremlins

Simpsons Bone Storm Episode

Mr. Hankey Episode of South Park (This is the only time of year Jack is allowed to watch South Park) 







Friday 6 December 2019

Bring Back Anne With An E

Dear CBC/Netflix Executives,

When I was a little girl I fell in love with Anne of Green Gables.  Anyone else who loved Anne as much as I did instantly became a kindred spirit (see what I did there?).  My childhood bestie and I would read dramatic Anne monologues pretending that we ourselves were begging to stay at Green Gables and charm Matthew Cuthbert and Marilla into allowing us to do so.

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In my late teens and early twenties I bonded with another friend who binge watched Megan Follows' Anne of Green Gables any time she was under the weather.

When CBC brought out Anne with an E around the time my daughter turned six, I knew I had to share Anne with her.  This Anne brought so much more than the Anne I grew up with, in the best possible way.  She had the sharp spirit that reminded me of Sarah Polley and yet was so much her own Anne, with charm and fierce tenacity.

Together my daughter and I watched episodes and I got to fall in love all over again alongside Molly.  Last year when Molly decided she wanted to go out for Halloween as Anne I happily worked on some sensible Anne clothes for her truly Canadian costume.


Molly of Green Gables

Through bringing modern themes to a classic tale, my daughter and I have been able to talk about so many important issues that would not normally come up in natural conversation between a mother and now eight and a half year old.  We talk about feminism, classism, racism, tradition, standing up for what you believe in, and fighting injustice, even when the people you love oppose you - all because of Anne with an E.

This past summer we went on vacation to PEI so we could visit Green Gables.  When Molly asked if she could pack and wear her Anne Halloween costume, we made it happen.  While we explored Green Gables we were enthralled with a collage of the different interpretations of Anne we and others have enjoyed.  Molly was able to sit with Anne and her friends outside the house for 'tea' and was thrilled when other tourists asked if they could take photos of her in her Anne costume.

Anne brings a feminist perspective from the past.  The work done with the series has truly been remarkable.  While I know that all good things must come to an end, this journey doesn't seem over.  There is so much more to explore and learn together.  Let's see Dianna fly, Gilbert become a doctor, Delphine grow up under the care of Bash, Miss Stacey's next chapter, and Anne become the woman we all know she can be. Today I implore you for the sake of me, my daughter and numerous others, please bring Anne with an E back.

Sincerely,
Sara & Molly

To anyone who hasn't watched Anne with An E, go, check it out, stream it now so the people in charge can see how many people are in love with this show.

Tuesday 26 November 2019

Green Eggs & Ham


The minions have been head over heels for the new Netflix series Green Eggs and Ham. It's pretty cute and stars the voice-work star power of Michael Douglas, Adam Devine, Jillian Bell, Ilana Glazer, Keegan-Michael Key, and Diane Keaton.

I Do Not Like Them Sam I Am, I Do Not Like Green Eggs With Ham

Since things have been a little stressful as of late I thought I'd surprise them with some Green Eggs and Ham for dinner last night.  Since my kids prefer their eggs scrambled I just added some food colouring to their eggs and painted some onto their ham.  For those looking for a little less food colouring enhanced eggs consider adding spinach.  Either way they were really excited and Jack thanked me five times.  Chris tried to convince the kids that green eggs came from green chickens and they made him Google it to prove his theory because they didn't believe him.

Are we going to The Dr. Seuss Experience you ask?  Only if we can find a Groupon or good deal online, until then this will have to do!

Molly digging in






Monday 25 November 2019

The Winner Takes It All

Grade three has not been a good transition for Jack.  There are days that it's seemed harder than adjusting to kindergarten or grade one, so I can only imagine what he's feeling.  There have been bullying issues that thankfully (hopefully) have been resolved. His teacher and the school has been amazing at nipping this in the bud.  He's a loner, but the bullying has made this especially evident. Academically he's lagging behind in math and his writing.  His focus is scattered at best, in work he does at home with us or with his tutor. A teacher who has him for two subjects this year (and had him last year) told us he's very engaged in one class and like a different kid, totally disconnected in the other.  At home in recent weeks there have been big freak outs over small things where it's been very difficult for him to calm down.  I am feeling his self-confidence plummet and it's been heartbreaking.

It's report card season and as I hear other parents complain about their kid having average marks and not excellent marks it makes me want to scream.  At the same time I know that Jack is kind, creative, clever, and wonderful, and I wouldn't trade that for straight As. His recent issues at school could be so many things: his response to the bullying, that he's about to make some sort of a jump, or the one that I fear the most, that he's pulling away from school. We're currently on the wait lists for an assessment and support, but I still worry - a lot.  He's not a disruptive kid, he's well-behaved, sweet and close enough to grade level that I fear this isn't a priority, there's only so much funding to go around.



Okay - enough complaining....

Since his first haircut Jack has been terrified of the clippers.  Two hair cuts ago our hairdresser showed Jack how the clippers would feel on his arm and asked him if he'd consider letting her trim the back of his hair with it during his next cut.  She held him to his word last week and all it took was a little extra screen time on dad's laptop to convince him.  He even let her trim around his ears with the clippers.  Chris and I both made a big deal out of it.  He needed a victory, heck we all needed a victory.

Then the next day he began working on creating comic books with a girl in his class and this seems to be an ongoing project.

They say not to sweat the small things, but what they don't mention is celebrating the small things.

Here's hoping that we figure out some of the bigger stuff some time soon!


Thursday 21 November 2019

Pierced - Getting Their Ears Pierced 101

I know the debate on getting a child's ears pierced when they are infants versus letting them choose when and if they want their ears pierced.

For me, I distinctly remember getting my ears pierced when I was eight years old.  It was a birthday present that I had desperately begged for.  I felt so grown up.  The training wheels had just come off of my bike and my mom took me to the jewelry counter at Hudson's Bay to get my ears pierced. We had Orange Julius after. It was the best day EVER!  As I type this I recognize that these may be some of the most Canadian 1980's sentences I have ever laid down.  The earrings I selected as my 'keeper' earrings were faux sapphire, my birth stone.

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I had two main reasons for waiting to have Molly's ears pierced.  The first was that although babies with earrings look adorable, I am keenly aware of what toddlers are like and the warnings that many daycares present on sending an infant with their ears pierced (i.e. we are not responsible if another child tears an earring out).  The second was that I wanted the earrings to be her choice, not mine, and a mother daughter bonding moment, something that I remember so vividly myself.

When Molly asked to have her ears pierced for Christmas this year, I suggested that we go together in November so they would heal and she could add 'fun earrings' to her Christmas list.  She was thrilled.

After talking to a friend about the piercing gun at a beauty salon jamming when her daughter had her ears pierces, resulting in pain and multiple infections until the earrings came out for good, I decided to opt for a professional piercer instead of a jewelry store or salon (and The Bay at Cloverdale mall no longer exists where I had mine done).  I researched nearby tattoo and piercing shops and picked the one with the best reviews.

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Molly had a choice of two sets of earrings, plain titanium balls or sparkly gem ones.  She went for the plain titanium ones.  I held her hand while she had the first earring put in.  She didn't make a sound.  She needed to regroup for a minute and when I told her that she could quietly say any swear word she wanted while she had the second one done, she giggled and was ready, but not before checking out the first earring in a mirror.  Right after we went over to the house of family friends for a cup of tea.  She felt very grown up about the whole thing (which was exactly what we were going for).

Miss Molly Just Moments After Her Ears Were Pierced


So far she's been great about making sure the special spray makes it's way onto her ears morning and night.  She lost an earring at swimming lessons, but dad managed to muddle through and get her some spares.

Stay tuned for news on all the amazing earrings she gets for Christmas.  She's particularly excited for dangly ones!

A special shout out to Bad Buddha Tattoos on St. Clair for doing such a great job.

Tuesday 5 November 2019

The Whole World Is Our Playground: Playground Review Humbertown Park

I saw this newly built park on my way back from running errands and knew we needed to check it out before the snow flies. They were literally putting on the finishing touches and sanding the equipment while we played, it's that brand new!  While it always disappointments me when a new playground pops up moments before playground season comes to an end (this one was supposed to open Labour Day weekend), I'm still happy that another green space where I can walk my dog and play with my kids has come to our general area.

My park review disclaimer: If you don't live in the area I hope you enjoy the pics and can use some of the ideas to inspire and explore in your own city. If you have any recommendations for great playgrounds (or new criteria I haven't thought of) please post a comment on this post or email me at multiplemomstrosity @ gmail.com



Exploring some of the structures



Park Name: 
Humbertown Park (Royal York & Dundas - 7 Wimbleton Road)

Parking:
There is some very limited free parking right beside the park, but there won't be a lot available in the summer once word gets out.  It's also steps away from the 40 Junction-Dundas West Bus stop which runs out of Kipling and Dundas West Station.

Theme of Park:
If IKEA and Bienenstock Natural Playgrounds worked together they would build this playground.


Balance beams and slides

Ground Coverage:
The playground has some shade coverage, soft wood chips and some rubberized landing areas to cushion any kid related falls, along with wide expanses of grass to play on.

Variety of Equipment for different ages:
Most equipment is designed for older kids (think age seven to eight and up unless your children are better, more confident climbers than mine are), but there are some slides (including some unusual ones), balance beams, spinners, and swings available to meet the needs of kids any age. There is a water fountain, but no bathroom or splash equipment.  

Kids enjoying the park before the storm came in


Best Parts of the Park:
The climbing equipment is amazing.  There is so much to do here.  The imagined 'ship' was Jack's favourite part of the structures, while Molly liked the balance beams to challenge her dad. There is a soccer field with bleachersjust below as well as rocks, and some accessible swing equipment. This park has all of the excitement of Jamie Bell playground but much better sight lines for parents who don't need to worry about losing their kids in the labyrinth or equipment.  Because the park is open I was able to take our dog for a walk around the park several times and still see the kids at all times.  

Another perspective of the climbers and slides


How Long My Kids Stayed to Play:
The kids played for about 45 minutes and would have stayed longer, but as you can see from my photos a storm was coming in and we had to leave.  There is a grocery store and some restaurants nearby on Dundas Street for anyone who would want to picnic here. Oh, and I forgot to mention - there is an outdoor ping pong table here as well!


Downfalls:
In the warmer weather I could see shade coverage being an issue (although the park plans posted on YouTube  show trees within the playground which may not have been planted yet or had lost all of their leaves). A public washroom or even port-o-john would make this park even better, as would additional parking.





Overall Rating:
I would rate this playground a 4.5 out of 5, particularly because this is one of the few playgrounds my kids can 'grow into' instead of age out of.  There is still plenty for little kids to do there too.  We will be back soon!

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Monday 28 October 2019

Our Day At The Uxbridge Wizard Festival

For Molly's birthday we bought her a Hermione Granger costume.  Shortly after, I started getting targeted ads for Harry Potter related things on my social media accounts.  Apparently the Harry Potter algorithms work, because we ended up buying tickets to go to an Uxbridge Wizard Festival & Hallows Express Train Ride through The York Durham Region Heritage Railway.  Targeted marketing works.  Molly and Jack used some birthday money they'd received to pay for their tickets and Chris and I bought our own.

Tickets for the event were pricey, but the kids were super excited to dress up and have something to look forward to.  We bought the Premium Tickets which included entrance into the event grounds as well as an hour long train ride for a journey to deliver evil prisoners to Goodwoodora Prison for $55 per person. 

When we saw the schedule called for rain ALL DAY LONG, we put on our rain boots under our wizard cloaks and set out for a day of magic, fun, and adventure!

Hanging out with some of the professors

Best Parts of The Event

The Enchanted Alley was a lot of fun.  Kids were able to take wizard classes in potions, weather spells, and a bunch of other interactive mini shows like Quidditch Matches and House Duels.  Molly was even called up to the front of a tented 'classroom' to make it snow!  People who had tickets to the train were permitted to attend an area that had Hagrid's Enchanted pets, Jack was happy to see snakes, lizards, and a bunch of other animals.  There was someone there with birds of prey including a falcon and white owl, but we only got to see the falcon.  People dressed in character around the park and were happy to take pictures with the kids - even the person whose name we're not supposed to mention.... Shuttle buses took you from parking/registration to the train and to magicians alley/park.  We never had to wait more than 3 minutes to get on a bus which was nice.  Because of copyright issues a lot of things were Harry Potter esque without explicitly saying it (like our train platform was 19 and 1/2), but it was fun to see how they changed things.

Look who is being creepy...

Molly uses her powers to make it snow inside in 'Weather Class'

Meet Mr. Falcon

The Tortoise & The Hare

Jackie Potter Speaking to the snakes

Worst Parts of The Event

It was cold in the rain.  I know that's no ones fault, but some heat lamps (or hot chocolate for sale that was actually hot) would have helped a lot.  While the train ride was fun, it was geared towards younger kids and I'm guessing by the time Molly and Jack were 10 or 11 they would have found the show on the train on the cheesy side.  There was a maze by the train apparently, but the location wasn't well marked and we missed it.


Molly wasn't thrilled that the sorting hat put her in Slytherin 

What We Spent

There were add ons that came in addition to our $55 per person ticket.  Parking was $10 in advance and $15 at the door.  Food from the fast food stand wasn't bad (for 20 dollars we got three burgers and two hot chocolates).  The kids insisted on using gift money and their allowance to purchase chocolate wands that were a whopping $15 a piece.  While a lot of merchandise (like the $24 t-shirts) were reasonable it would have been nice to see some more stuff in the $10-12 range.  I'm a little sad we didn't see any chocolate frogs. 

Was It Worth it?

It was a fun day, but an expensive one. We were there from 11am to just after 4pm and probably would have stayed later if it were a warmer, dryer day.  The kids will be talking about it for ages. I would go back again, but may not splurge on the train tickets (which would have saved us $30 a ticket) next time because we've already done it now, even if it meant not seeing the amazing creatures.  If your kids love Harry Potter and magic it's worth checking out next fall.  There are also other train based events in Uxbridge including The Polar Express for Christmas and Thomas the Train events.  For a link to the schedule click here.